Dear John & Allie,

My wife and I first visited a swing club about a month ago. Needless to say, we were nervous as hell and almost turned around in the parking lot. Fortunately, there were some middle-aged "normal" looking people walking around so we decided to at least attend the free orientation. It seemed pretty fun, so we joined the club and after spending a few minutes watching people "play" in the playrooms we went outside and had sex on a mattress. There was no pressure, no one approached us, and we had a lot of fun! All in all it was a pretty exciting evening!

Last night, there were three or four couples in the parking lot when we arrived. The women were very attractive, mid to late 30's, and wearing provocative clothing. It was sort of intimidating. Had that sight greeted us a month ago we might never have gone in. But we pushed through our nerves last night and entered the club.

We found a table way back in a dark corner and sat down. We had only been sitting there for a few minutes when my wife grabbed my arm and pointed to the second floor and to a couple on a couch. The woman had her head buried in the man's lap and she was really going to town. We sort of laughed at how surreal it seemed, because up to that point we could have been at a restaurant somewhere. We watched them play and after a few minutes they got up and left. I don't think he finished so it was obviously just an appetizer and the main course was going to be later.

Another couple spotted us and walked all the way over and asked if they could join us for dinner. We said, "Certainly." My wife wears a 48 HH bra (hence my nickname for her: "Juggs"), and last night she was wearing a corset that pushes her boys up and out. It's quite a sight. The man at our table was obviously a "boob man" because he made several comments during dinner about Jugg's...err... juggs. ;-)

Yesterday, our daughter got her chest pierced. (Never heard of that kind of piercing before.) My wife told the story at dinner and she did a lot of pointing to show the man at our table exactly how the stud was placed in the center of her chest between her breasts. She enjoyed teasing him, though she really wasn't into him physically.

We were afraid that they wanted to swing with us, and we're not ready for that (and may never be) so we mentioned that we were new and that we didn't know when we would want to swing with other people. They talked a lot about the lifestyle and at one point the man said that he liked to get fairly intimate with his partners, admitting that this is often frowned on in the lifestyle. (That was a revelation to me.)

When we got up to get dinner there was a long line for the buffet. I saw that one woman went through the line topless, and another -- while still in line -- dropped to her knees and put her head under her partner's towel to give him a little oral action. Strangely, Juggs and I took it in stride. It seemed... normal.

After dinner, the other couple said goodbye and they went off to play. My wife and I listened to the band for awhile, and then we went out to the patio area. There was a group of about three couples next to us, and at one point a woman came over to join them. They were all laughing and someone apparently mentioned her breasts because she lowered her top to describe them. (Her breasts were perfect. My wife even commented on it.)

Juggs and I started to get a little affectionate, as we finished our bottle of wine, and after awhile an extremely sexy woman approached us. She sort of hesitated at first, then walked right up and asked us about something she had overhead during dinner. (They were seated at the next table.) We chatted for a few minutes and they said they were new, as well. Then they excused themselves to go sit in the hottub. I think they mentioned the hottub twice. They were very attractive and about ten years younger, so it didn't occur to us until later that they might have wanted us to join them. We would have loved to get to know them better. Hopefully, we'll see them again.

My wife started to get pretty horny and she was ready to get down on her knees right there on the patio to give me a blowjob -- but I wasn't sure if that was a designated "play" area so I suggested that we go up to the couch where we had seen the couple earlier. There, in full sight of the band and a few people dancing, she took care of ol' Stubby in a most spectacular way!

After I got cleaned up, we cuddled on the couch and watched two couples on the dance floor. The women were absolutely drop-dead gorgeous. They started to get naked and pretty soon they were kissing and rubbing each other's chests while their male partners looked on. My wife said it was very erotic. (She finally admitted, recently, that she is bi-curious.)

My wife then surprised me by taking off her corset and walking through the club topless! She lead me outside, taking the LONG way, and stopped at one of the mattresses. There were two other couples only about twenty feet away. They were pretty noisy and Juggs admitted that she watched them a bit while I had my head buried between her legs.

We hung out for a bit longer and then headed home. Juggs admitted today that it wasn't as exciting as the first time. (Making love outside felt sort of taboo when we first did it, she said, so last night wasn't as thrilling.) I wasn't sure if she would want to go back anytime soon, but she talked about the club a LOT today. And at one point she said she had a dilemma. I thought she was talking about the bathroom we are remodeling; but instead she said she wasn't sure what she should wear next time! She suggested a see-through corset, if she could find one. Visiting the club really makes her feel sexy, and she is obviously a bit of an exhibitionist. Who knew!? ;-)

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It's funny. Juggs has said repeatedly, before and after our first visit, that she does NOT want to swing with anyone else. Ever. She does NOT want to catch any diseases and she does NOT want to see me with someone else -- and she said that if *she* was with anyone else it would feel like cheating and that goes against her morals. I've told her my fantasy of seeing her with another man, but I was completely fine with her decision about this. Not sure how I would really feel watching her with someone else anyway. Some things are best left as fantasies. Frankly, I was kind of glad that she put her foot down, and I accepted it as law.

Here's the funny part. She keeps making comments like, "Did you see that woman having sex with those three guys? I'm just not sure I could ever do that." And, "That couple wanted to swing with us, but I just wasn't into him." So I really believe she is thinking about it! I guess we'll just have to play it by ear.