Old porno adict.

[Hoagen]

I am old (73) and don't have a whole lot of lead in my pencil.  In fact, I don't have any paper to write on even if i did have enough lead for my pencil.  I am not a swinger but I would be if I were younger and my wife would go along with it.  She cut me off 20 years ago so that is probably why I am so interested in sex.  I love hearing about John and Allie's adventures in the clubs and try to imagine myself in such fun places.  I like looking at nude woman doing whatever and would love to visit a club but I think they would throw me out.  So, I am not a swinger and can't be a swinger (wife too .....) but like to hear about other people having fun.  What is all of the fuss about sex any way.  Could never understand why people get so up tight about something which is enjoyable, universal, life long, enjoyable ( oh yes i said that) and involves everyone who is alive.  As Kidder says; "Sex is Fun, enjoy it".  Hope you guys won't throw me out....Hoagen

[John]

Hi Hoagen,

Welcome to the party.  Your life experience is valued here.  Hopefully, you can get your wife to listen to our show but if not, then maybe she would listen to Sex Is Fun?  Dialog can lead to good things.  I won't pretend to tell you how to communicate with your wife.  You have much more experience in that arena but just know we're rooting for you!

Hope you guys won't throw me out....Hoagen

We throw people up, side-to-side, down, sideways, upside down, backwards and on piles....BUT.....We never throw them out! 

Looking forward to hearing more from you,

John

[Thinking]

Hey Hoagan

For what it's worth, if you listen to the first episode of Sex Love and Intimacy you'll hear from someone who thinks there is no such thing as a porno addict. His view is that 'addict' is a term applied by health professionals to classify certain physical states, and in general looking at porn isn't a physical state. For most people (in my limited experience) looking at porn is just a fun thing to do.

Also, as long as it's fun safe and noone gets hurt then I think you'll find the swinger community pretty non judgemental.

One other thing, my wife and I (we are in our 40's now - well I am, she's still a spring chicken in her 30's) intend to keep it hot as long as we are physically able. I'm not sure my 70 year old parents were pleased to hear this news when my wife told them. But each to his/her own.

L&P

[MRnMSbhaven]

Rock on dude...  :-)

We wouldn't toss you aside.  Like Thinking said, to each his own and we're glad you're here.