My wife and I have been nudists for a while, and are genuinely lifestyle-curious. We are very open, friendly and anything but shy. We usually stay at Hidden Beach, but are actively considering this trip to Desire. Would this be a good trip to sign up for?
We can recommend Desire for your situation completely! Our first ever lifestyle trip was to a Desire resort. We went on our own and planned to "maybe" get naked, and just soak up the sexy atmosphere. The people were all wonderful, open and zero pressure (although plenty of interest). We were able to take things completely at our own pace and it led to lots of healthy open communication and experimentation.
You can make a trip to Desire as vanilla or spicy as you like. Just be sure to check in with each other often (so much going on), and going with a group gives you an instant set of introductions. I know from the swingercastaways I've met you can ask pretty much anything you want and expect your boundaries to be respected.